Changes

 I have LOVED having Dan and Diana and Oliver and Hazel visit this season!  I am sad they leave today, but I know we will see them soon.  And I need to get some stuff done that isn't as fun, but necessary.  That will be a change.  

My dad has had HUGE changes this past month.  His health is different with a catheter.  He has moved into Jamestown and hasn't driven or been as independent.  That has been hard for him.  And it has been hard for me.  I miss where we were.  I remember thinking I should appreciate where we were and I tried to.  I now must visit him, and he forgets lots of things in his short term memory.  And we will have to get his house ready to sell soon.  That is another big undertaking.  I will continue to take one day at a time.  I went over today to unhook his hose in the garage, as it is super freezing cold.  And I put a lot of Claudia's furniture and knick knacks in a certain place for her nieces and nephews to go through first.  Also, my dad has had lots of issues with his catheter and he forgets what to worry about or not.  I am going to enjoy that he is still remembering me, still with us, and still enjoys walking and getting around Jamestown.  I will try to enjoy this phase as I did the last.  

I love Dave.  I hope things don't change there!  He is so supportive and loving to me.  He is a good man.  He has so. much placed on his shoulders.  I hope I am a support to him.